I thought I'd post it now rather than wait for a week. I'll post twice or more.
Plantress says: for unromantic love, I always think of bacon....and then maybe later I think about my dogs
barflybling says: A few years ago I was unemployed and had a lot of time on my hands. I wasn't dating anyone and frankly didn't have a whole lot going on in general. One morning my brain said "I love ____." And I said "What? You love what?" And my brain said "I love ____." I realized that I was having that loving feeling without any person or object as the source. I was just feeling the emotion love. I was familiar with the idea that you are the source of your own happiness, but I had never thought about it in terms of love (all emotions for that matter). It was an incredibly liberating observation and I'm very grateful for it.
Abbeyroadbeads says: Love includes always kissing goodnight after the argument. You may still be furious, but you are assuring that person that he is more important than the argument.
MirthfulMary says: A "perfect" relationship is when two people can sit and talk about anything. They can disagree on occasion, but basically they dream in the same direction. Two people who love each other talk to each other every day about everything. Sharing problems at work, dreams for the future, everyday issues, solving world problems, everything! And when you are truly in love you'd do anything for the other person. You don't want anything to happen to them so you'd give your own life to save theirs - without even thinking about it. You'd even bust a boil on their butt if they needed it! lol.
Meghan Ryan says: American television does not make a good basis of the normalities of relationships.
Anon says: Clubs are never the place to meet classy ladies.
Rochelle Says: True Love doesn’t need to include fireworks, constant swooning, thinking of them and never of anything else, angst, or whirlwinds. Many people have passed over people they are honestly in love with, just because they’re not obsessed.
These are just some of the many comments I've been sent so far. Please, continue to send me pieces of advice on Love! Thanks so much!